Hey guys, so on my little update post I casually mentioned a new man in my life. I’m not gonna expose him on here since it’s fresh and new, so i’ll refer to him as Mr. T. I’m gonna give ya’ll a little snapshot of the time between our first date, to now, living life, and being official. Like I changed my relationship status on Facebook for the first time in 3 1/2 years official.
All right ladies and gent, lets all form a circle and listen to me spill my secrets. I’ll start from the top. Here I was casually downloading Bumble again after a long hiatus from online dating (that’s a whole different post). I did this mostly as a joke because I got bored at my girls house and told her I was gonna get boo’d up so I could be the annoying couple friend. Alas, here I am and a few matches later one pops up from Mr. T who was cute, educated and looked less like a fuck boy. So we start chit chatting, and almost immediately he hits me with “I wanna take you out on a date, is Friday good?”. If you’re a female, you know how rare that is, not having to ask for/plan the date or even get an actual date and not an invitation to their house. ADD to that, he told me what time and where to be and the rest was all up to him, so I was reaaaaaady.
First Date: He took me to this Thai restaurant, which I never would have picked but was super good and we were laughing and bonding over mutual interests and mutual dislike (cough cough, current prez). Next he took me up to a view point and we just talked, soaked in the views, and basically made it known we were def having a second date. Then we decided to go bowling, so we did, and I whopped that assssssss. While bowling the last game we made a bet, that if he won, I would stay the night. Soooo, that game I slacked a bit, a girl was enjoying herself. So he won the last game, we headed to his place, hopped in the hot tub, and were just sharing music, hot and bothered and there was plenty of kissing.
When we were all hot and overly toasty, and he had adequately made fun of the fact that I could not see, and kept having to take my glasses off due to the steam of the hot tubs we decided to head upstairs. Granted it was about 2:30am at this time, so definitely a good idea. We ended the night with a little more kissing, cuddling and sleep. Yes I mean actual sleep. I resisted the urge to sleep with him even though ya girl was SOOOOOOOOOO horny I could’ve been a transplant donor to former Unicorns turned horses.
The next morning we woke up, and I had to scurry back up to where i lived an hour and a half away to pick up my daughter but we made out a little more, he walked me out to my car, and we’ve been happily dating now for about a month and a half.
Ya girl is SPRUNG. I feel like T-Pain right now cause he has me all in my feels, but wish me good luck and kisses and I’ll be bringing more juicy details later.